So today is my birthday, a day that I tend to contemplate my past years, and those yet to hopefully come. I’ve journaled since I was 15; I’m developing quite a library of the majestic 3 – Me, Myself, and I. This is the place where I’ll reflect, inspect, and ultimately redirect my thoughts and energy. Having put my New Year’s resolutions on paper throughout the years, as well as other goals, has helped me achieve many of them and understand why I haven’t achieved others.
However, the only day of that most of us will do this is New Year’s Day. Unfortunately, announcing that one has made New Year’s resolutions seems to invoke a blahzae attitude in many and hostility in others. “Well I’m not wasting my time making resolutions. I’m just going to live my life. What happens happens,” is a response I’ve heard more than once. However, resolving not to make a resolution is still a resolution.
My question is why is that – why are people scared to set goals for themselves? Study after study proves that those who set goals are far more successful than those who don’t. Yet, surveys still prove that only 3% of the population set goals. Isn’t it odd that 97% of this country’s wealth and power is held by only 3% of the population? It wouldn’t be those same goal-setter’s would it? I love Anthony Robbins comment about if you’re not planning your life, some one else is. I agree with the thought that it is better to set your own goals than to live up (or down) to someone else’s.
With that said, I’ll share some of my birthday goals:
- Like so many others, one of my main goal this year is to lose weight, 20 lbs to be exact. As a weight loss advisor, it would behoove me to walk my talk (I love the Chardonnay, and it loves my stomach
However, In 2006 that goal was 80 lbs; in 2007 it was 30 (yep, I’m a work progress).
2. Pay off all of my credit card debt this year.
3. Enjoy more quality time with my family; they’re spread across the county.
4. Be in Hawaii this time next year.
It seems that as my life has grown longer, my list is getting shorter. But isn’t that what we all really want, a happy life?